Dating suggestion after breakup
"If someone is very much in love -- and [then] broken up with-- and forever trying to get back with that person, then having a platonic relationship does not work," Lieberman says. No 'let's get together for coffee.' No nothing," she says.
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Nor should web sites like Breakup Butler, which delivers several types of prerecorded breakup messages ranging from let-them-down-easy to downright mean. But to my mind, it's better to call and speak or go out to dinner," Lieberman says.
"The news of a breakup should never be broken over text or email," says Alison Arnold, Ph D, a therapist in Phoenix who is also known as 'Doc Ali,' the life coach on the VH1 series Scott Baio Is 45 ... "Texting a breakup is the coward's way out," she says.
"Face-to-face or phone contact is a must," Arnold says.
"It's important to give the person with whom you are ending the relationship the chance to ask questions and feel the sentiment underneath the words." Be as direct and honest as you can, she advises. Stick to the facts: 'It's not working, it's no one's fault, we need to make a change.'" Whether or not two people can remain friends after a breakup depends on the two people and their feelings about the end of the relationship.