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To unblock a user, click the Mail tab followed by the Blocked Users link.
On the next page, you'll see a list of the members you have blocked, if any.
Click the My Account tab and then the Settings link near the top of the page.
If you see a Turn Off Instant Messaging link, then you already have the instant messenger enabled.
There will be a button of a circle with a line through it (i.e., the "no" symbol) at the upper right of the IM window which says "block", if you mouse over it.
First, if you have a Mingle2 mail from the person, you will be able to block the person by clicking the Block User link at the bottom of the message: Next, if you have an open IM window with the member in question, you can block in that window.Mail filters allow you to limit what types of members can send you any type of message on Mingle2.To set these filters, click the Mail tab followed by the Filters link.*note: If your IM is not working properly, make sure you have the latest version of Flash on your computer.Also, phones may not be compatible with the Mingle2 IM program.