Dating recently separated guy
A more accurate term for 'separated' in most of these cases would really be 'separating,' since few of these people are actually through their divorces or have completely ended their previous relationships.
In some cases couples, because of children and other intricacies related to married life, are still deeply involved with their soon to be ex-spouses One of the most common temptations people fall for when a relationship is ending is the desire to find a new love - and to do so right now!
So all he can do is wait for his wife to start the process cuz he doesnt wanna piss her off and cause him trouble when the proceeding comes that he wants to he friendly as much as possible to the wife so it will go smoothly. thanks btw, im a single mom with 6years old kid and when i went for my vaction he came with me and i introduced him to my family.
Im very disappointed,i wanna cry out that i feel like i am being played. im still with him,im crazy about him and i cant stand living without him no more.
“It seems like it was a lifetime ago, but I know it has been scarcely any time at all.
I just am not ready to re-enter the dating world again.
“Sure, I was gobsmacked, but I don’t want to waste any more time thinking about my new status as a single guy.1 week ago he went for vacation because his daughter’s 15th birthday and they need to celebrate it as it is a big deal for them, i do understand,even my birthday is the next day after his daughter.but before the birthday like 5 months ago we have talked about his plan of divorcing his wife and he said his wife told him that she will do the process so when he gets there all he needs to do is sign, i gave him ultimatum that if he didnt bring me paper when he gets back to me then i need to move out,he promised me that he will bring me proof and not going to fail me and i also promised him im going to patiently wait for him.4days before he left me his wife called him and told him that she wasnt able to do it because she was busy at work and for the birthday preperation and told him that he has to settle their debt first before even thinking of the divorce. and he told me as soon as he get there he will do it by his self.He went to vacation, he keeps calling me and i didnt answer, i didnt wanna know anything about whats happening to them during his stay,i felt so miserable that my mind is all fucked up.