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Money and salary is brought up frequently, and name dropping is prevalent in a good portion of conversations, especially in Los Angeles where status is paramount.British girls, meanwhile, do not spend the same amount of money on themselves as American girls, nor do they expect you to spend a lot on them.She had a vision of the man she was going to marry: tall, dark, handsome, and a millionaire.After all, as she put it, "dancers don't make a lot of money." I wasn't the guy that could spoon feed her, so it ended.In Britain, we are self-deprecating to the point where we convince ourselves that we're utterly useless in life.I've always loved this approach: under-sell, over deliver. Where British women live in the moment, unafraid to admit their flaws, American women want to project an heir of success to the world.It was a night full of spontaneity, which American girls—naturally outgoing and vivacious—have perfected.
I remember one girl I went out with from the UK whose mother knew all of her intimate details.
This does not happen in American culture, where women rarely make fun of themselves. American family dynamics is still something that remains a bit of a mystery to me.
Which brings me to American girlfriend number five, who was paralyzed by her hoards of self-help books. In the UK, girls are open with their parents about sex and dating. Girlfriend number three, who came from a conservative family, would often talk about the importance of transparency and honesty, but would lie to her parents about where she was staying, afraid of what they might think of her.
Was American culture really as shallow as my friends had warned? She was a down-to-earth Midwesterner with ambitions in New York City theater.
She shattered any preconceived notion I had about both actors and American women.